Genderphobia
First
published in Lesbians on the Loose, April 2002
©Katrina
Fox 2002
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©Avalon
Media 2002
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Genderphobia...Do
you have it, asks KATRINA FOX
Have
you ever had sex with a transsexual, transgendered or gender variant person?
No? Are you absolutely sure? Even those of you still resolutely insisting
'no' may want to think about it some more. With the rise of the transgender
movement throughout the nineties, the boundaries of sex, gender and sexuality
have started to become blurred and the lesbian community faces increasing
challenges in how to react to the profusion of identities coming onto
the scene. Words such as 'hermaphrodyke', 'pansexual' or even 'spansexual'
are becoming as common in the gay press nowadays as 'diesel dyke' or 'stone
butch' were in the eighties.
Until
recently the main gender issue of concern to dykes was the question of
whether male to female (MTF) transsexuals are women and if they should
be allowed in women-only spaces. But with more and more of those stone
butches pumping their veins with testosterone and declaring themselves
to have been men all along, lesbian culture is getting a bit of a shock.
Add to that the proliferation of people coming out identifying as both
male and female, female part of the time, or as neither sex or gender,
and things get even more interesting.
Reactions
to this foray of gender bending are divided. US lesbian magazine Girlfriends'
decision to keep female-to-male (FTM) transman Patrick Califia (previously
well known lesbian writer Pat Califia) as a guest columnist angered some
of its readers and pleased others. International photographer and artist
Del LaGrace Volcano argues that 'lesbians are going to have to pull their
heads out of the sand and address the issues gender is bringing up.' Formerly
lesbian Della Grace, Del now describes him/herself as 'an intentional
mutation of male and female that I call FTM intersexual by design'.
Where
such people fit into the lesbian scene is a bit of a minefield. On the
one hand, there is the camp that says if a person is born biologically
female or male, that is what they stay, no matter how they self-identify
or change their physical appearance at a later stage. The other side argues
that it's all about self-definition, so whether an MTF transsexual is
welcome at a women-only event all comes down to which argument you favour.
But the 'what you are born as' standpoint has its limitations, as the
Michigan Womyn's Music Festival in the US has shown. Its notorious 'wimmin
born wimmin only' door policy has been the subject of controversy for
years, as it is based solely on what the organisers believe a woman looks
like. So if you're an MTF who doesn't 'pass', a hardcore butch who looks
like a man, or a superfemme with more make-up and big hair than a drag
queen, be prepared to be excluded.
A similar debacle took place in Sydney in the early nineties when a group
of lesbians sought to exclude all transpeople from Lesbian Space, a women-only
building in Newtown. This kind of policy highlights the problems of trying
to define what a woman is by criteria other than self-definition. Does
it depend on a person's genitalia or chromosomes? If so, where does that
leave the one in 200 people born each year with intersex conditions who
are physically unable to fit into the rigid categories of male and female?
Such policies also fail to take into account cross-cultural perceptions
of sex and gender.
Spokesperson for campaign group Sex And Gender Education (SAGE) Norrie
mAy Welby, previously an MTF transsexual who now identifies as 'mostly
woman and sometimes more and less' says: 'I was only ever conscious of
acceptance prior to the Lesbian Space incident. Since then, I have seen
things shift enormously away from the destructive successes of transphobia
and towards powerful public acceptance of transpeople from those influential
in the lesbian community.'
Events such as the Gay Games, to be held in Sydney this year, are an example
of the shift in attitudes as they adopt trans-inclusive policies based
on self-definition.
But pockets of prejudice can still occur, particularly among older radical
feminists such as Germaine Greer who continues to refer to MTF transsexuals
as 'pantomime dames'. Psychotherapist Dr Tracie O'Keefe, author of Sex,
Gender & Sexuality: 21st Century Transformations, believes that transphobia
among lesbians is largely based on ignorance. 'Women of all kinds have
space in the lesbian community - a lesbian is not a concrete concept,
it's simply an aspect of female identity. Women don't come in boxes or
with guarantees, they come in all shapes and sizes. The lesbian community,
as well as the rest of society, is learning about an ever expanding knowledge
that is accumulating in the diversity of sex, gender and sexuality. 'It's
an opportunity for the community to not only consider the diversity of
other sections of human nature but also to examine their own prejudices
and ability to appreciate other people's lifestyles and physical and spiritual
selves'.
One thing is for sure - the 'gender outlaws' are not going away. Take
a look at the latest issues of lesbian sex magazines such as On Our Backs
or Quim, and you'll find erotic stories written by and about 'tranny boys'
or 'gender queers' included. Even academic organisations are amending
their policies to reflect changing attitudes - last year Oxford University
Student Union in the UK changed its Constitution's definition of woman
from someone designated as such by their birth certificate to 'any person
who permanently identifies as female'.
Debates over butch and femme are still raging after 30 years, as recent
issues of LOTL have shown, so we can no doubt look forward to passionate
exchanges over the wider gender agenda.
But perhaps instead of isolating ourselves into even smaller minorities,
we can learn to leave genderphobia behind and take a step towards expanding
our concepts of who we are and enlarging the possibilities for our lives.
After all, as time goes on, it's likely that more of us will have emotional
and sexual encounters with sex and gender variant people - whether we
like it or not.
Lesbians
on the Loose (LOTL) is an Australian magazine covering New South Wales
and Queensland. For more information visit the magazine's website at www.lotl.com
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